Relationships of insecure pople are doomed to fail. Relationships require two people being honest with each other. The only way to do that is to first be honest with yourself. Insecurities come out during a relationship and create unnecessary tension – tension that has no place in a loving relationship. Relationships can often do much good and get insecure individuals to accept and work on their insecurities. However, when they fail to do so, they fail to grow as people and their partners lose interest over time. Being insecure is depressing. Depression has a way of spreading and spoiling things. (Paul Hudson, Elite Daily)